sidenote -- one of my very best friends in the entire world called me today and we got to catch up for a solid 35 minutes. it was much-needed and completely wonderful. she is falling in love [probably], and i am so excited for her! she also used the phrase [and this is a direct quote!]: 'gnostic dualism of the Christian sub-culture' when discussing her thoughts about kissing.
that is why i love her.